Sometime I think life must be unfair to see people with this natural gift while some of us have to work hard to keep a mile on our face. If you don’t have this natural talent you can train yourself to smile in spite of your present condition or situation.
People tend to avoid sad and depressed people but they want to hang around happy people. Even if you are facing the most difficult moment of your life you should not it to the world because it will do you more harm than good.
In life people judge us by our outward expressions, what they can see and feel in our physical appearance. Social scientist discovered that actions are more powerful than emotions. Our action will eventually determine how we feel about ourselves. Real habit is more of happiness than a goal, more of an attitude than attainment. It is the companion of carefulness, not the creature of circumstances. Even if you are happy and carry a sad face, people will think you are depressed. No one wants to associate with a depressed person. No one wants to listen your talk about your unending catalog of woes. Everyone loves good news and happy people.
Sometime we face hard times and allow our circumstances to affect the way we look and hoe will interact with people around us. We value ourselves 99.9% and we have little time to of others. If you always look to serious and intense people may not give an excuse for your looks; they may just take it that you are cold, stand-off-ish and probably anti-social. No one as the time to probe your mind for the reasons behind your frown or depressed look. People most time take us at face value. That is why we must discipline ourselves to wear a smile even under the most difficult circumstances.
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